She was a ninety year
old Queen that had ruled for sixty years.He was a broken
man that had been forced into two years of hard labor in
prison for participating in homosexual practices.Wilde
died in Paris - an exile living under the name Sebastian
Melmoth. He was only forty-six years old.
Life had begun for Oscar on October 16, 1854, in
Dublin, Ireland. He was blessed with three middle names
extending this full name to Oscar Fingal O'Flahertie Wills
Wilde. He was the second son of interesting and
accomplished parents. His father, William Wilde had - by
the age of 28 - graduated as a doctor, traveled to North
Africa and the Middle East, studied at Moorfields Eye
Hospital in London, written two books, and had been an
adviser to the Irish Census in 1841. The medical statistics
they gathered had never been collected in any other
country. He was knighted and became Sir William Wilde
because of that - and subsequent census work. He opened
a Dublin practice specializing in ear and eye diseases.
Feeling he should provide treatment for the poor as well, he founded St. Mark's Ophthalmic Hospital which he
built completely at his own expense. Before he married, he
had fathered three children - all of which he financially
supported. He paid for the oldest son to go to medical
school and eventually hired him as an assistant at St.
Mark's Hospital.
Oscar's mother Jane, gained attention for writing
revolutionary poetry for an Irish newspaper. She was also a
noted linguist and translated literature from European
languages. Jane and William married and had three
children together - Willie, Oscar, and a daughter, Isola
Emily. At the age of ten the daughter died from a sudden
fever. The loss of his sister had a profound and lasting affect
on Oscar and the remainder of his life he carried a lock of
her hair in a decorated envelope. Oscar excelled in
grammar school and achieved a scholarship to Trinity
College in Dublin. At Trinity, his achievements garnered
him another scholarship to Oxford in England. Again at
Oxford his talents were rewarded with prizes and the
highest achievement marks by his examiners. Upon
graduation, he moved to London, where he published his
first book, "Poems."
Witty and flamboyant, with long hair and sporting
flowing capes, Oscar's keen intellect and knack for quick
quips made Oscar a favorite among London's literary and
social set. He was sought after as a guest and a public
speaker. In December 1881 Oscar sailed for New York for
what was supposed to be a four month - 50 lecture tour.
It turned out to last almost a year - with 140 lectures.
Oscar Wilde was a phenomenon.
In 1884 at the age of thirty, he married Constance Lloyd, a
well-read, wel-educated woman with an independent mind. They
quickly had two sons. Thus began the most creative period of his
life. He wrote, "The Happy Prince and other Tales" for his sons.
This statue of Oscar, located in a park in Dublin, Ireland is uniquely carved in colored marble.
It sits in a place of honor near the Writer’s Museum that honors the Emerald Isle’s many gifted wizards of words.
Also in 1895, Wilde was convicted of gross indecency - a charge brought about by Bosie's father. Wilde was sentenced to two years of hard labor in prison. Constance took the children to Switzerland and reverted to an old family name "Holland." In response to his two years of agony in prison, Oscar wrote "The Ballad of Reading Gaol." But upon release, he was a shadow of his former self and never revived his creative spirit. Constance died in 1898, three years after having moved to Switzerland. Their sons would have been 13 and 12 years old. Two years later, Oscar died as well, leaving the boys without parents. He and Bosie had reunited briefly but most of the three years that he lived after prison, Oscar wandered around Europe, seeing friends and living in cheap hotels. Finally, a persistent ear infection became serious and meningitis set in and Wilde succumbed to death. He is buried in a Paris cemetery - in exile forever. His body of work and his quick wit with a phrase live after him - for us all to enjoy.